Build Your Confidence And Self Esteem For Now And Forever!

What exactly is Confidence and Self Esteem?

Although they are related, there are differences between the two!

Self esteem relates to what a person thinks of themselves... basically their own self respect! If their esteem is high, then they think highly of themselves and feel that their worth is more. Vice versa if it is low.

For those who have very low esteem, the answer is inside of themselves. They are in control of whether or not this will change or stay the same. Nothing anyone else does or fails to do will change them, but how they choose their beliefs is very important.

For example, it is important to distinguish beliefs that are based on knowledge against those that are based on assumption. These people should try to take the assumed beliefs and change them to become beliefs based on knowledge. In this way, the actions they take, as a result of these beliefs, will be based more on reality than on what they are assuming reality is.

Some people have a tendency to compare themselves to other people who they feel are better than they are. This can knock their self feelings down quite a bit!

In reality though, these other people actually have other flaws that they may not be noticing, and they will never know this unless they can change their beliefs to be based on their knowledge of all the flaws of that person as well as their attributes.

Confidence relates to how strong and secure a person feels with respect to doing a specific job or task. The highly confident person doesn't care about what others think and they believe in their own abilities to do a great job.

Self Esteem can definitely have an effect on the person's confidence to perform a task or do a job. The higher the esteem, the higher will be the assurance and the happier the person will be. It's all like one big cycle because then the happier the person is, the higher will be their esteem and the better they will perform a task because their confidence is higher also. This cycle just keeps re-fueling itself when a person's inner feelings are well balanced.

I hope all this can prove helpful... but if you feel the need to self improve a bit you can visit here and here for more information on how to strengthen your inner feelings and live a much happier life!

Written by Ken L. Larizza

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